HOW TO PROPOSE TO A GIRL YOU LOVE.
Chapter 01 (Beginning)
{By Emmanuel Chiagozie Ogbonna HOLYSON}
When you see a girl that you love so much, off course before you fall in love with her, you should have observed her attitude not beauty, all glitters are not gold.
Some girls can be physically beautiful but psychologically ugly. If you have watched her behavior and want to get in touch with her, these are the things you have to do so as to win her heart;
1. KINDNESS: Be kind to her and don't yet say "I love you." If you see her carrying something heavy, ask her "can I help you?" Don't say "baby can I help you?"
2. GENEROUS: Be her cheerful giver, don't yet request for her phone number. If you are working in the same office with her, show your love and care to her.
You can do this by buying a bottled water for her whenever you see her eating, you can at times sweep and clean her apartment etc.
3. BE COMIC; Always make her to laugh, tell her jokes and funny stories. Ask her funny questions like; How many people came online yesterday on Facebook? Mention two people you will first help if you become the president of U.S.A tomorrow? By then she will mention her brother and sister and then you ask her, "so you won't help me?" She will now laugh and say "I will help you nah" by doing this, she will start having interest in you because, you make her happy. (I'm talking from experience.)
4. EXCHANGE OF MATERIAL THINGS: Yes, this is one of the easiest way of being close to girls. You can do this by borrowing her phone to make calls, browse or watch pictures and videos.
You can as well as collecting her text books, novels or note books that is if both of you are students. By doing this, you will be drawing her attentions to you.
5. NEATNESS AND WELL DRESSING: Bear it in mind that money is not everything, if you have money but you can't be neat and dress well, it is only few girls that will be interested in you.
Dress well but don't too dress like a gentleman be stylish, ninety-five percent of girls prefer a guy man. And also be neat all the time and smell nice, apply body sprays and fragrance perfumes.
6. FLEE FROM SHY: timidity is a great weapon that kills success. Do not be frightened when talking to people especially girls talk to them and don't lack confidence but let your talk be of good purpose.
7. ADMIRE HER: each time you see her, tell her wow! I love your today's dressing, you look so cute, see the way you are shinning, you look so gorgeous etc don't yet say "I love you" just be admiring her beauty in a funny way.
8. PLAY WITH HER: playing with girls is one of the best way to win their heart though some people misunderstand it and give the man a title "woman wrapper." There are so many ways you can play with a girl that will make her feels about you, this is one of the tactics; snapshot her without her consent and make sure the picture looks so unappealing then show her. If she sees it, she would like to delete it then she will run after you.
On the process, just stop and put the phone inside your pocket. She will be struggling to pick it out and by doing that, her body which you have been looking for an opportunity to get in touch with will now be touching you frequently.
At some moments, just allow her to take it from your pocket and then pursue her. If you catch her, hold her hand, turn it slenderly and be saying, "give me the phone and I will free you." She will be turning around to free herself and you will be enjoying it because, her body and yours are touching each other. It will beseem as if both of you are making love. Then later release her.
If she goes home that day, guy, I assure you the girl will be thinking about you that night and will like such opportunity to call again.
9. FEEL BAD FOR HER BAD MOOD: if she is in a happy mood, be happy with her and when she is in a painful mood, share the pains with her.
That time you feel she is in a bad mood, meet her but remember, don't yet call her 'baby' rather say in a lovely voice, "what's wrong? Your face is not looking nice what happened?" If she refuses to talk, don't go but keep asking. And if she continues not to respond, go and buy for her what you have observed from her as her best item/food, console her, advice her and make her feel good.
If you apply this, I promise you the girl will not forget you.
10. CHECK IF THERE IS ANOTHER MAN COMING FOR HER: ask people that knows her well if she is in a relationship so that it won't cause commotion between you and her lover.
But if she is not in a relationship with any man, then try and proove your love to her by taking another step.
HOW TO PROPOSE TO A GIRL YOU LOVE
Chapter 02 (Quarter Final)
1. PAY HER A VISIT: now, this is time to take your feelings for her to another level. Ask for her domicile and visit her at her expedient time. Greet her parents explain who you are to their daughter. Your introduction should go like this; I am Daniel from IMO state of Nigeria. Your daughter Annabel is my coworker at the office." Or schoolmate/classmate as the case may be.
Help her in some of her domestic works let everybody in the house feel your presence. When you want to go, tell her to escort you by doing this, you are calling the attentions of the public that this girl is your lover upon you haven't propose to her.
2. ENGAGE HER IN SOCIAL GATHERINGS: hangout with her, take her to occasions but don't yet take her to hotels. Buy something light for her (beautiful girls don't eat heavy foods.) Buy her things like; ice cream, pizza, soft drinks etc but don't touch her.
Take lovely pictures with her and dismiss her. She will be wondering why this guy hasn't ask for her phone number upon all these days she has been with him. "What kind of man is this?" she will say and start looking for chances to give you her phone number.
3. STUDY WITH HER: even if you guys are not students, study anything with her, there must be something she knows better than you tell her to lecture you on that. It can be books, computers, smartphone, it can be Holy Bible etc.
4. HAVE FUNS WITH HER: enjoy some moments with her by playing games with her. It can be ludo, draft, whot etc. watch movies with her and eat with her.
When you are doing all these, my brother it has become obvious that you are in love with the girl though you haven't say so.
5. TELL HER TO SEE YOU AT HER LEISURE TIME: when she comes, sit her down show concern for people and things around her by asking How do you cope? How is your parents, brothers and sisters? What do you want to be in the future?
She might say; medical doctor, pharmacist, lawyer, pilot, musician, blogger, electrical engineer etc pray for her success in the field she wants to be then ask her, "can I have your phone number?"
She will quickly say "yes off course" collect her personal number, watsapp number and also her social medias handle.
6. GO TO HER FACEBOOK TIMELINE: search for her on Facebook with the userne she gave you and send her friend request. When she accepts, go to her timeline check her kind of posts by doing that, you will observe the kind of reputation she has on social media.
If you are satisfied with her reputation, you can start a private chat with her.
And let your chatting goes like these; Hello! What a beautiful girl online, she will see it refuses to reply because most of girls are too shakarative. Message her again, "Hi Annabel, how are you coping tonight?" She will now reply, "kul n u?" You reply her 'great' and ask her "how was today's work?" She will say "fantastic n u?" Then reply her "cocastic." "U re so funny o, wic 1 is cocastic?" She will ask. Send her "Lolz how is your people?" she will reply you, 'Fyn'
Then tell her good night and she will ask you 'why?' Just tell her you will see her tomorrow and go offline.
7. SEND HER FUNNY MESSAGES: logging another day and start a comedic conversations with her. It can go like this; fine girl no pimples, you too fine upon no pancakes. E be like say na only pawpaw u dey chop. She will quickly reply you, "Hahahaha/Lolz funny guy" then be happy you are getting her because for a girl to a guy "funny guy", that means the guy is getting her attentions.
After some pages of your funny conversations with her, tell her you want to share your private story with her let her advice you. She will say "Kk"
8. FUDGE A STORY/QUESTION RELATED TO WHAT YOU WANT FROM HER: ask her a question that relates to what you want from her. It can go like this; please I have something bordering me for a while now don't know what to do. My flesh needs to start a friendship now but my spirit is against it and each time I see some girls, my body temperature rises and my trouser gives me a strange shape. I'm confused don't know what to do, please advice me.
She will say, "my dear it happens to me too, but it's your body you have to control it but if you can find a true lover, I suggest you start." Ask her if she knows any girl who is trustworthy so that she can hook you up with her. She will say "No I don't trust anybody find by yourself." Then ask her, "abeg no vex o, what if I point my hand at you?" She will say "hmmm" ask her "wetin de smell?" "Nothing o" she will reply.
Then hammer her with best toast you have ever heard of it is then you will call her baby, babe, love, sweetheart, angel, one and only etc.
Your toast to her can go like this; Baby you are the apple of my eyes. My angel, I lost myself the day I looked into your eyes. Sweetheart, you are my baby bull, mathematics can not solve the kind of love I have for you. Whenever I'm alone, I think about you, you are the photocopy of Beyonce your beauty drives me crazy etc
She will send you a list asking you to indicate what you want from her. The list will come like this; WHAT DO U WANT FROM ME? 1.BABY 2.KISS 3.GIRLFRIEND 4.SEX 5.SERIOUS RELATIONSHIP 6.MONEY 7.SPEND A NIGHT WITH YOU 8.TAKE A SELFIE WITH YOU etc.
Send her no.3 (Girlfriend) and add without defilement on it. If she is not a responsible girl, she will abandon the message and still be online but if she is a responsible girl, she will tell you she has to think about it.
9. WRITE A LOVE LETTER TO HER: in that later, explain all your feelings for her without hiding anyone and promise to take a good care of her.
10. OFFER HER A GIFT: enlarge the best from the previous pictures you took with her, write three or four paragraphs of love messages on it and present to her. You can also buy her a dress, a pair of shoes, a wrist watch, fragrance perfume or cute necklace etc don't buy her a ring o, time for it hasn't reach.
Open up to her one and one don't feel shy tell her your mind, repeat that same words you used in that letter you wrote to her and promised her not to cheat on her.
After you've done all these my brother she will succumb and accept your friend request she is now your girlfriend. (The mission and its battle has started.)
HOW TO PROPOSE TO A GIRL YOU LOVE
Chapter 03 (Semifinal)
1. HAVE A SECRET MEETING WITH HER: meet her in a concealed place where nobody can see you. Make her not to panic that you might rape her then ask her, "baby, do you love me with all your heart?"
If she says yes ask her again, "if I become a handicap tomorrow, would you still love me?" If she continues saying yes, ask her one more time, "Annabel, do you love me? I know the reason why I'm asking you o, if you do not love me tell me now that's why I called you privately to discuss it with you, I won't kill you if you do not love me." Then she will furiously say, "baby why are you talking like this, if I do not love you I wouldn't have accepted your friend request at the first place, I love you with all my heart"
By calling you 'baby' it shows she loves you but ask her for the final time, "Okay, if you say you love me, do something to prove it." Then stay quite and watch her.
If she doesn't love you, she would say, "is already late nah can't we continue tomorrow?" But if she truly loves you, she will come closer to you, hug you and kiss your cheek then as a responsible guy you are, kiss her cheek too (not her lips o) (kissing is not bad though in Africa they consider it as a sin but remember, Jesus was kissed by Judas Iscariot) and allow her to go.
2. SET A TRAP FOR HER: for you to know how much she loves you, you have to give her a test. You can do it by telling one of your male friends to go for her. He has to toast her on social medias and get to you her responds. Secondly, you can give sum amount of money like #25,000 and above (if you don't have, borrow.) give it to another male friend of yours telling him to go and tell your girl to sleep with him and possess the cash. there are so many ways of testing your lover so as to know how much she loves you.
After all the tests and she did not succumb, that means she is good to go and deserves some respects from you.
3. KEEP YOUR EYES FROM OTHER GIRLS: you have tempted her and she didn't fail now this is the time for her to test you too. Show her love don't have another girl apart from her. Don't do it so that she won't catch you but do it with a sincere heart to show her the respect she deserves. Mind the way you associate with other girls so that it won't look suspicious to her (girls are jealous.)
4. GIVE HER A PET NAME AND KNOW HER HOBBIES: send her a list of pet names like; ANGEL, ONE AND ONLY, INAMORATO, PRINCESS, PUMPKIN, SWEETHEART, DEAREST, LOVE, INAMORATA, OBIM, HONEY, QUEEN OF MY HEART, APPLE OF MY EYES etc and ask her to lease one.
If she feels you will cheat on her, she will chose "One And Only" so that you will have only her. If she feels you will break her heart, she will chose "Obim" which means "My Heart" so as to warn you not to break her heart. But if she feels your friendship is going to sweet and last long, she will pick "Sweet Heart." After chosen her own, then chose a suitable one for her to call you. you can chose "Inamorato" it simply means 'a lover' while "Inamorata" means a woman who you are in love with. Or you can chose "Honey" it depends on you.
Then know her hobbies, the things she enjoys doing when she is not busy and apply it.
5. WORK HARDER: bear it in mind that you are no more single off course you are working but now is the time for you to work more hard so that you can be able to take a good care of yourself and your lover (Pino pino) because if you don't provide for her, she will start going outside to look for it.
6. MAINTAIN HER BEAUTY: every woman is beautiful (none of them is ugly) all you have to do is to maintain her. That first attraction that brought you closer to her, Bros maintain it. If you don't maintain her, she will look so tattered and looks older than her age. Then you will start looking for those who maintain themselves and look younger and by doing so, issues will arise and your friendship will crush.
Although she is working but support her financially.
7. AVOID THE USE OF HOT TEMPER: a hot tempered man cannot take a good care of a woman because he can't control himself and as you know women are too irritative and still deserve to be pampered. So don't make use of hot temper on her when she misbehaves.
8. AVOID REGULAR CALLS AND VISITS: even the Scriptures say, "if you visit your neighbour too often, he will get tired of you and come to hate you." So if you want your friendship to last longer, avoid calling her regularly on phone and also decease from visiting her too often so that each time you see her, both of you will be newly to each other and that attraction will still be there but when you go too closer to her, you will become an old face because she sees you all the time.
9. APPLY TOLERANCE: for a strong foundation to be laid in friendship, you must tolerate.
As we all know, at times women can misbehave and be silly but that's their nature so you have to tolerate every bad attitude she develops otherwise you kill her with your bare hand.
Women are like raw eggs, so pamper her or else she will fall down and break. And when she breaks, it will be difficult for you to remold her.
10. CELEBRATE HER BIRTHDAY: call your friends and well wishers and celebrate her on that special day that marks her birthday.
Buy her surprising gift items, that day should be the first day you will take her to a hotel then share a moment with her, make her feel happy but don't entangle her with alcoholic drinks. By doing this, people will know yes the girl is for you and trust me none of them will tamper with her.
If you are applying these steps, you won't make mistakes in your friendship which is leading to your marriage and before you could finish these steps, off course it has taken you a year or two years and you have seen how good the girl is, then take another step.
HOW TO PROPOSE TO A GIRL YOU LOVE
Chapter 04 (The Final)
1. START A SERIOUS RELATIONSHIP WITH HER: there is different between friendship and relationship. FRIENDSHIP is an association that provides assistance while RELATIONSHIP is a romantic or sexual involvement. Before, you guys were just boyfriend and girlfriend now your friendship should have gotten to an extent of involving her in a serious romance. You can do this by giving her a rose flower (which shows love) then tell her you want to start a courtship with her so that if it is God's will you marry her. If she needs you as a hubby, because you can be good for friendship to her but not good for marriage. So if she likes you to hubby her, she will agree and say "okay o, let's be looking nah if it is the will of God, who am I to say no." (But deep inside her, she is very happy because men are scarce.)
2. PUBLICIZE YOUR RELATIONSHIP: now is the time to make your relationship widely open. You can do that by posting her pictures online, using her pictures for wallpaper/screensaver, having her pictures together with yours in your photo gallery etc. When you are doing these, it shows you truly love her and everything about her both her face, stature and character etc and she won't do the opposite.
NOTE: in a true relationship, sex is not involved.
3. CHECK YOUR BLOOD GROUPS: in this case, you are going to do a lot of laboratory tests such as;
i. Genotype: (genetics) The combination of alleles, situated on corresponding chromosomes, that determines a specific trait of an individual, such as "Aa" or "aa".
eg an Aa can marry an As but an As cannot marry an As if they do, they will give birth to a sickler.
ii. Phenotype: (genetics) The appearance of an organism based on a multifactorial combination of genetic traits and environmental factors, especially used in pedigrees etc
If your blood group matches hers, then take a bold step before another man possesses her.
4. ENGAGEMENT: planning for marriage is a bold step which every woman prays for. If you calculate from the day one you started the journey with this girl till now, you will see it's a bit long journey and has reached like two or three years. Both of you have tried so don't keep her waiting, plan for your marriage proposal.
But before you do so, engage her with a ring of any type, put it on her third finger by yourself so that when other guys see her, nobody will tell them that she is engaged. She has to do the same to you and both of you are now engaged.
5. GIVE HER THE FINAL TRIAL: in this case, you are to give her the last test to know if she is going to be a good wife because women are too pretence they can hide their bad attitudes during a relationship and show their original colours after some months of marriage especially when she has given birth to a bouncing baby boy. So let both of you test yourselves, you can do it by inviting her to your place. She has to stay with you from morning to evening for at least two or three months then goes back home during the evening.
Secondly, you have to send her to your parents so as to use their experiences and survey her attitude then feed you back whether to go ahead with her or to run as if tomorrow no dey.
6. PROPOSE TO HER: this is the last stage and you have to do it carefully and joyfully.
After your parents have given you the go ahead order, then invite her to a hotel room and surprise her there.
How can you surprise her? You can surprise her by inviting some good friends of yours and hers and when everybody gathered together in the hotel room, give them drinks tell them the reason why you invited them, "my friends, I invited you here today so that you experience the happiest moment in my life. I want to tell you that I'm in love with this girl and everything about her." Then bring out the gift you have bought for her it can be a car key with a rose flower or anything as the case may be. Present it to her with loyalty by kneeling down call her that pet name she choosed earlier and say, "sweetheart, you are the best woman I ever seen, I want to spend all my life with you, .....baby.... can you marry me?"
Guy if you do and say these, I promise you that room is going to be overflowing with her tears, what a tear of joy!!!
THE END
ABOUT THE BOOK:
This book "How To Propose To A Girl You Love" is a motivational book carefully arranged to motivate our youths who want to get in touch for marriage.
At times, a young man who is looking for a life partner can see a young lady and be physically and psychologically attracted but won't know how to approach her.
In this book, you will learn how to start and end successfully.
Marriage is a gradual process if you rush, you crush.
Let your journey of a thousand miles start with a step.
NOTE: this book is not encouraging people to fornicate but to learn how to start a successful relationship and end with successful marriage.
ABOUT THE AUTHOR:
Emmanuel Chiagozie Ogbonna A.K.A HOLYSON
is a native of Umunze Anambra State.
He is a first son of her parents after the loss of
their first son. HOLYSON studied at Ugwunano
School Umunze for his primary education
And went to Community High School Umunze
for secondary.
At his tender age, he flows in music both singing
and dancing.
Emmanuel later became a musician since 2012
with a stage name "DI MARIA" and based in Gospel songs.
When he went to Onitsha for an apprenticeship, he wanted to change to "HOLYCHILD" but one of his friends EMEKA suggested the name "HOLYSON" and he took it since 2015 till date.
HOLYSON later went to Lagos for second apprenticeship since his previous one didn't favour him. It was in Lagos he got connected in music industry, changed to secular and blown once.
He is now a great man with so many achievements;
He is the founder of 9JA DAILY TOAST FOR YOUR LOVED ONES (DATOFOYOLO) a personal blog which is going to be an official and most famous website soon.
Emmanuel has so many personality such as: Motivational writer/speaker, Musician/songwriter, Acting, graphics design etc.
He is blessed with six siblings three boys and three girls.
One of his brothers Arinze Ogbonna popularly known by his stage name FORGOD is a Comedian with so many personalities, the other one Ekene is a Master of Ceremony (M.C) with the stage name M.C ULTIMATE and the rest are blessed with precious gifts which we cannot be mentioning one after another.
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